Showing posts with label gender expression. Show all posts
Showing posts with label gender expression. Show all posts

Monday, October 7, 2019

Reality Check: where I stand on gender expression and the body

Reality Check: where I stand on gender expression and the body




I am again being attacked on the internet for speaking truth to political correctness regarding gender
politics. I know I have little recourse to the slander. But I am putting this statement out there for anyone who may be interested in a reality check. Character assassination has always been the tool of fascism on the right or political correctness on the left. The goal, it would seem, is to stop political debate and public discourse.


I am being dissed for a simple statement of scientific fact, taken out of context. I have fought for the
right of everyone — most specifically for gender variant people — to be able to control their own bodies. I have actively fought for the right of individuals to have access to information that will assist them in making INFORMED choices about their bodies.


I am deeply troubled, and yes outraged, at the things homophobic and transphobic people will do to
harm, bully, brutalize and even murder persons based on their gender expression.


I stand with the person attacked for their gender expression, regardless of debate over theory.  


I challenge anyone to find evidence that refutes what I have written here.



I am deeply dismayed at the deep roots of the binary rules and misogyny implanted in all of us.
Detoxing these irrational poisons is a necessary first step to authenticity and freedom in gender
expression.


For me, gender variance is the norm, not the exception. On the arc of gender expression, there is
no correct expression. This is what feminism taught me.


Remember: we live in a world of social media manipulation. We also live in a world where the right to
be different and treated with respect, dignity and equality is under attack; here in the United States,
particularly in academia and through political correctness group-think; and worldwide, as we
gender-variant and same-sex-loving individuals, of a diversity of gender expression, become more visible. 


I suggest that before you attack someone like me, you speak to them directly; confirm what is being said
about them; or interview them to find out what they actually think and what their actions have actually
been — before you name-call, judge, character-assassinate and then erase.


My decades-long friendships with Sylvia Rivera and Marsha P. Johnson have been called into question
and attacked.  Yes, Sylvia was my friend until she passed. Even in the midst of the early trans attacks on
me, Sylvia and I would meet privately and talk frankly. We had spent many activist moments together
and we both knew that despite any debate over theory, we had each other’s backs. 


I am amazed at the number of people who did not know either Sylvia or Marsha who refuse to listen to
people who did!


Want to talk?  Hit me up. We don’t have to agree. But then you will know the truth of who I am and not just learn fake facts and false and fabricated fantasy.

jim fouratt 10/02/2019

Saturday, March 18, 2017

Taylor Swift - You Belong With Me (Gay Version)

I just discovered this video for the first time ..... if you know any teen that is struggling with sexual orientation issues ...please send .. (no, it does not matter if you are a Swift fan or not !). Suicide rates are still rising for gay/queer/trans self-identified teens ...help save a life in a world of political homophobia. Anyone know who made this video?   




Note: attached to this video is the following: Uploaded on Nov 28, 2010

A remix of the Taylor Swift song You Belong With Me. The video was on YouTube. I remixed the ending to make it smoother. Wish I knew the ones who are in the video. If It's you send me a message so I can tell you how good you guys  I do not claim any of the rights to the song or the video.




Tuesday, August 25, 2015

what is a man ? and who defines it ? Auntie Homo speaks

Auntie Homo says: Hating being a man does make you a woman. Conforming to roles rooted in oppression is adjustment. Changing what it means to be a man is radical.

Saturday, May 16, 2015

Bear with a heart is live in NYC this weekend Doug Strahm... go listen....trust me it's a safe space

Although I don't identify as a "bear", I am going to see Doug Strahm tonight ....I really like his songs .. a Nashville taught Americana on the edge of Country singer he does not look or sound like what most people think of as a "gay singer": ....but he is his own kind of out, Southern dad, white, older gay, bear singer .and that makes me happy .. and his songs are as full of hope and dare i say it "love" He is his own kind of bear "diva" .. 


Doug Strahm represents anotherportion of the gender expression that in its totality allows each of us to find where we fit on that arc of gender expression... and I for one welcome all expressions of gender that lodestone humanity and self-acceptance.... trust me this bear moshpit tonight will have more than a few gender illusionists in the crowd. And you know what we need is as much heart in butch to be expressed in order to break the chains of acceptable masculine behavior .. and I see Doug Strahm on the cultural frontlines of role modeling for little boys and bigger men that yes you can be who you are and love who you want and still have compassion and sensitivity and humanity without fear . This is how I see the bear community at its core.... and yeah, I like his songs .... 


he is in town for two shows this weekend